Issue No. 2: He fumbles.
Most men do know that there are some key spots to stimulate, but many aren’t totally sure how to locate those spots in the moment (or with a new partner). If your guy is a bit lost, speak up and give him directions—with a few “mmm”s and a “yes!” or two for good behavior. (You don’t want to sound like a sexual GPS: “Left! Right! Recalculating….”) If you’re worrying about his male ego, don’t. Most guys have no problem with some guidance in this department.
Issue No. 3: He’s not using his hands.
Without taking anything away from mouths and other parts, hands are a sexual tool that every vagenius needs, and this applies to both oral and penetrative sex. Gently guide his to where you’d like them to be, and be enthusiastic when they get there.
Issue No. 4: He needs to vary his technique.
If he’s got only one move, it’ll get old no matter how good it feels. Try making sug gestions in the form of questions, such as, “I wonder how it would feel if you moved your tongue/finger in a circle'” or as compliments: “I liked the part where you did that.” Now you’ve got a vagenius on your hands (and other places).